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Robin Taylor
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Posted: 26 August 2025 at 4:47pm | IP Logged | 1 post reply

You know whats funny? I really struggled with this. I have tons of great memories or memories that should be considered as great but a fondest is hard. I have learned that for a bunch of reasons I don't encode memories the way most people do. 

If I had to answer I would have to say the first time i directed anything lives large in my memory.
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Rick Senger
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Posted: 26 August 2025 at 5:06pm | IP Logged | 2 post reply

Seemingly mundane but a surprisingly strong memory: hanging out by the local pool in summertime with my brother and parents one July day in the early 1970s. Had just passed my swimming test. So relaxed and content, not a care in the world except whether I'd get a vanilla or chocolate frozen malted later.
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Posted: 26 August 2025 at 6:33pm | IP Logged | 3 post reply

Camping in a tent in the back yard of one of my friends when we were 11. We stocked up on sweets and crisps from the newsagent on the village green earlier in the day and then had a midnight feast, while having one of those great, meaningful chats 11-year-olds have, like 'if you could have a super power, what would you choose?"

There's a scene in Stand By Me that reminds me of it!
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Evan S. Kurtz
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Posted: 26 August 2025 at 9:03pm | IP Logged | 4 post reply

Isn’t that a quote from The Doctor? That “nostalgia” can be defined as, “the pain of memory.” Or like Adam Duritz once sang, “the price of a memory is the memory of the sorrow it brings.” 

I spent much of my life celebrating my experiences and cherishing the people with whom those moments were shared, to the point of trying to keep in touch with people long after they had any interest in keeping touch with me. But eventually I realized that it was all just wasted emotion, and I’d do better by letting go of them and focusing instead on the people who give as much as they take from me. 

I still have a vivid memory, and I can reflect on and love the significant moments that shaped me even if the people I shared them with are long gone. It’s not always easy to reflect without a tinge of sadness though. 
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