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Tom French
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Posted: 23 May 2009 at 11:31am | IP Logged | 1  

I am not sure if Tom posted this, but on his facebook page he has links to the play he worked on with his kids, if you have not watched it, do, it is amazing. My admiration for Tom grew as I watched his interaction with those wonderful kids. Tom you are a great teacher and thank you for letting those kids into your life. I know you have said on here you may not be teaching too long, please stay as long as you can, the world would be less bright with teachers like you in it.

Thank you, Jodi.  That was the sweetest thing you could say.  Seeing that documentary pulled at my heart strings, too.  I've talked about the meaning of Edinburgh and our production of AESOP ad nauseum, but that documentary really illustrates how I felt to anyone who'd watch. 

I think my time as a teacher is coming to an end (though I signed on for one more year at my present school), but I want to begin a career in educational advocacy -- specifically music in our schools.  Thank you, though, for thinking I make an impact in these kid's lives.  I hope that's true.

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Joakim Jahlmar: The bad thing about that on line relationship was that it had all the possible bad aspects of a relationship (fights that would make me feel very bad, jealousy, etc.) and none of the good ones. I remember how depressed I got and how stupid I felt because I was feeling miserable for someone that I had never even touched. 
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I would like to rekindle a sense of friendship with Tom and Geoff.  To that end, I want to make amends.  Would Tom and Geoff be open to that?

Thanks,
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Arc Carlton
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Tom, how long have you been a teacher?
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Joakim Jahlmar
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Arc wrote:
"Joakim Jahlmar: The bad thing about that on line relationship was that it had all the possible bad aspects of a relationship (fights that would make me feel very bad, jealousy, etc.) and none of the good ones. I remember how depressed I got and how stupid I felt because I was feeling miserable for someone that I had never even touched. "

Well, then I'd say it's the same as with any unhealthy real life relationship...  i.e. if it's not good for you, and if it's not something that can be worked out and made good, then it's simply not good for you.  Once again, I think it's a case of where the medium is merely the messenger, so to speak.  And Dog knows there be plenty of relationships around the globe that would be better off not existing.
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A psychology professor did a mini experiment with his class.  He asked his class who had a Facebook and/or MySpace page.  He then asked if the students would be willing to pull up the page on the computer so everyone can see it.  No one wanted to. 

He found it interesting that people will post the most personal of pictures, blog posts, etc. on the internet for millions of strangers to see and yet were unwilling to show it to people they are looking at.
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Juan Jose Colin Arciniega
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Hi everyone!

I'm OK...the earthquake was bit strong, but we are like people in california, so accustomed to this events...i got scary for a minute...no damages here!

Thanks to all of you who cared about my well being.
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The Earth should only move for you in much more pleasurable circumstances, Juan! ;-)  Glad you're okay.
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Joakim Jahlmar
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Jeremiah wrote:
"A psychology professor did a mini experiment with his class.  He asked his class who had a Facebook and/or MySpace page.  He then asked if the students would be willing to pull up the page on the computer so everyone can see it.  No one wanted to. 

He found it interesting that people will post the most personal of pictures, blog posts, etc. on the internet for millions of strangers to see and yet were unwilling to show it to people they are looking at."

On one level I think this ties in with what was discussed above vis-a-vis it being easier to come out to strangers because there's not the same emotional investment as with people close to you, i.e. you don't stand to lose as much.

The absurdity with regards to the on-line presence is, of course, the fact that unless you're participating under an alias, a lot of people (including some closer ones) will most likely be able to see it anyway.  Unless you have non-inclusive settings.  This was actually one of the reasons to why I fairly early on switched my SU settings so that ONLY friends could read them.  I mean, I'm fine with networks watching my profile, and keep it with that in mind,  but I realised that some SUs started to get a bit into areas (not really THAT sensitive or anything) where I wasn't full comfortable with people I've no clue about reading.
Not saying I'm super close friends with all the people in my "friends list", but they are at the very least some type of acquaintances, and if I don't want them reading, maybe I should either not be FB friends with them to begin with or not type that particular comment into my SU.  Simple as that.
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Juan I am glad you are OK.

Tom I am happy to hear you are staying another year, I am also happy to hear you will try to protect the arts in public schools. The school in my area has basically gutted the arts, we had a teacher that would do amazing projects with the kids. In fact she would get the kids to produce the most amazing work, she had the kids in kindergarten studying Jackson Pollock and his style of painting. She had them do the same style of painting and the finished paintings were hanging up in the hall. I was pregnant, was blown away by them and said "Wow she is having them study Jackson Pollock." And it was at that moment I picked the name Jackson.

She was later let go due to budget cuts, they made the gym teacher take over art classes since he had free time.:0(  They have now, due to pressure, hired an actual art/computer science teacher.



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Joakim Jahlmar: Yes, you're right. I was just surprised when I realized how much I cared about someone that I didn't really know. It was more the idea of the person than the reality.
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Happens all the time, Arc.  Think about all the young people (and the not so young for that matter) who, on at least some level, falls in love with some famous person – whether a musician, movie star or simply "just" famous – where at best what they know is merely factual titbits and interview persona shots.  Now there, it is clearly more about the idea than anything else.
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