Al, are you suggesting that Brian is actually blind? 

And I need to shave my palm, too!

Use Gaydar for Gay or not Gay:

Freddie Mercury: Gay or not Gay?

Answer: Both and neither, from what I gather he was bisexual.

So basically bisexuals muck up existing Gaydars then...

Hm, somebody needs to come up with a better -dar, then I guess. One that answers the more relevant question in any situation involving any "sexuality": i.e. is that person turned on by me (i.e. the person using the -dar, not necessarily me me, but you guys knew that right).

Don wrote:
"I was more referring to the cro-mag manly-man, homophobe type, that acording to my sources, seem to rush through and not properly satisfy their partner.  I was trying to Imply that the bit of gay I have is what allows me to empathize with my lovers and always leave them with a smile."

Oh, I got that, Don, I just couldn't resist the swing. ;)
And I'm betting there're some cro-mag manly-man gay men out there as well, with about as much interest in a partner's sexual satisfication as their hetero counterparts.

More Don:
"I should point out that I am not trying to be a braggart here.  I was raised to treat a lady right and what is good for the goose, is good for the gander."

A good policy. And I'd add that there's something pleasing in pleasuring as well.

Even more Don:
"And in regards to your not-so hidden hint, that can always be an option, it's a matter of trust, and something that can be quite fun..."

True, but it just looked to good next to the possibility of that being the definition of a considerate lover (especially since I know a multitude of women who'd balk at that particular notion). so nothing against your original post, really, Don. It was just too good possible interpretation not to take a swing. (and as a last line of defense I'll add that I WAS writing it at 1.32 a.m. local time, so my mind leaps and twists in ways only the nighttime can make it... or not). :)

And obviously Al and Tom managed to respond while I was typing, saying much the same with much fewer words. What can I say? I'm verbose.

(Obviously, since I'm adding even more).