Posted: 16 September 2007 at 4:36pm | IP Logged | 1
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"There's an old saying, in England. 'You take the King's shilling, you do the King's bidding.' In professional relationships, this is called 'honoring the agreement'.
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Sure, when a deal is made, you are bond to go by the rules of the deal.
But when the tradition is bad, change the tradition."
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Again, speaking to the general concept, not the specifics: if the tradition is bad, change the tradition...going forward, not retroactively. Or excercise your perogative to not participate in a tradition that you don't agree with. But don't voluntarily agree to participate beforehand, and then complain about it afterwards.
I know a dude who sold his house a few years ago, and he was very vocal about his displeasure in having to pay the realtor her commission: "She didn't do anything. The house sold itself!" This has boggled my mind ever since. He went to her. He solicited her to perform this professional service for him at a price agreed upon in advance, to be paid only upon successful completion. The realtor did exactly what the man hired her to do and he begrudged her her commission even though he hired her to do this specific job for a percentage agreed upon in advance. "She didn't do anything. The house sold itself!"
Of course, I bit my tongue, but I wanted to ask, "So, then, why did you do this woman this great big favor? Why didn't you just put it up For Sale By Owner?" I know a few people who've gone that route. After enough time and enough frustration, they tend to turn to professional realtors.
But this is one of those memories that will stay with me for a very long time. How can a man go out and hire someone to do a very specific job for a very specific fee, then after he gets everything that he asked for and agreed on in the first place, turn around and complain?
I'm certainly no mind reader nor a mental health professional, but in the case of the situation I just described I would offer the following speculation: I think that when someone literally doesn't understand another person's job, they literally can not appreciate it, and that's when they end up begrudging them their income...
...or maybe the guy in my example is just a grumpy old man who sees no problem in agreeing on one set of terms before someone does a job for him, then complaining about it after he's gotten everything he's asked for.
Who knows?
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