Posted: 08 December 2006 at 4:35pm | IP Logged | 10
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Jo, how do you "redefine" masculinity? Writers like Jack London and Hemingway had already addressed the nature of man, not the nature of being macho. That's a cliche which this modern culture has embraced wholeheartedly.
I may have misspoke though. We don't live in a feminized society. We live in a feminized culture. I wasn't specific. I am more than willing to follow a matriarch, so all you reactionary politicizers on this thread can go to hell. As far as this society goes, you are right in that men do dominate the work structure, but what is the result of their steady decline in self-image since the early 60s? A lot of angry people, a lot of reactionary people, a lot of people who are disenfranchised. I don't put any stock in "masculinity", but I also don't believe men should be converted, feminized, and if not then immediately categorized as the exact opposites of manhood, the gruff, Tool Time-loving stereotype, whether we've earned it or not.
As I've said before, men of integrity are characterized as this buffoon unless they are either of a social/economic strata that precludes that stereotype (and invites others), or until the feminized culture recognizes their worth intellectually...
The other part of this argument is that at no point have I "blamed" women. Why would I blame a woman for being a woman? I love women. I love their emotion. I love their illogic. I adore them, but I also know they know what I find to be "cool" about this culture is about as interesting to them as their talk of their friend's wedding preparations are to me. The wiring is different, but I'm also a writer, and as such I'm supposed to adhere to the current view of intellectualism and culture, which I don't and cannot.
Again, I really enjoy these differences, until I notice all around me that men in general are considered classless, anti-intellectual, and ignorant of the maps of the human heart. This is the shame of modern living, that the idea of being "civilized" means lacking the passion, and heart, that a man has and a woman does not, as a man has nothing of the fortitude of a woman who is determined, who gives birth to new life.
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